1. Let go. Don’t chase anyone. If they’re meant to be in your life they will be.
  2. Show your love as well as say it. Make sure the people you love know it.
  3. Create your life just as you want it. If your needs/wants/desires change, recreate your life.
  4. Have patience. You know you need it from others so practice having it with yourself and others.
  5. Don’t force situations. If it isn’t working out move on and/or let go.
  6. Spend your time with people who enjoy your company (and whose you enjoy).
  7. Family is everything and friends who love you become family.
  8. If you’d never introduce a person to your family it’s a clear indication that you don’t see a future with them (friendships included). Decide when it ends.
  9. Never stop writing and journaling/expressing yourself.
  10. True spirituality is holistic – mind, body and soul. It is necessary to eat right and exercise.
  11. Having your own space is essential to a sense of peace. This could be physical space or just time that is to focus on you.
  12. God lives within you, is a part of you and vise versa.
  13. Love is the only way forward. It is the only thing to conquer negativity.
  14. Do what you believe to be right no matter what.
  15. Do what you feel you want to do when you want to do it (as long as you’re not hurting yourself or anyone else).
  16. Do not give in to pressure. Learn to say no and be happy with it.
  17. Accept help graciously from friends and family.
  18. Try to help as many people as you can but never force help on anyone.
  19. Just listen. Never give advice unless you’re asked for it.
  20. People who like to be “brutally honest” and “tell people about themselves” often cannot take the same type of treatment without anger, resentment or defensiveness. (Not always, but quite often.)
  21. Never tell anyone anything you wouldn’t want the world to know.
  22. Always tell the truth but be kind about it.
  23. If you can’t tell the truth, then it’s best to say nothing.
  24. Treasure the people and nurture the relationships than make you feel comfortable enough to 100% you.